⊗ Wait 3 days to call your date
Um are we living in the stone ages people? Nowadays people want everything now now now – including hearing from you. So after a great date, don’t hesitate! Don’t follow that old rule of waiting 3 days, which is supposed to make you seem “hard to get.” This method will make it “hard to get” another date. You want to show that special someone that you had a great time with them. I would suggest a nice text after the date, or even a call the next day.
⊗ A woman should not be doing the asking
You know that age old rule that a woman should never ask out a man on a date? Well throw this one away ladies, along with that rule about never wearing white after labor day. If you like a guy, why not show how confident you are by asking him out. Suggest going out for a drink or coffee. And if he’s the kind of guy that is turned off by this approach, then well, he ain’t the guy for you.
⊗ The guy is fronting the bill
Unless your date has a money tree growing in his backyard (and if so, does he have a brother?), you should NEVER assume he is going to pay. Even though deep down inside, you and your pockets are hoping that he will reach for the bill, you should offer to split it. He will greatly appreciate the gesture and most likely decline. But if you’re going to offer, be prepared to fork up the $$$.